Where Am I Supposed To Be?

Are You Where You’re Supposed to Be?

I get this question from clients all the time. It’s second only to ‘Why am I here and what did I come for?’ Here’s my take on it: We are always exactly where we are supposed to be. The reasons vary—sometimes it’s for healing, sometimes for learning important life lessons.

Too often, we get restless and think moving to a new location will solve everything. But experience has taught me that wherever you go, there you are—still the same person with the same issues.

Time for a Spring Cleaning—Inside and Out

As we enter spring, let’s take this time to clear out what no longer serves us. It’s been a long, hard winter—both metaphorically and literally—and now is the perfect opportunity for renewal.

• Open the closets and drawers.
• Find things that no longer fit.
• Repurpose them or give them away.
• Clear the clutter—both physically and emotionally.

You might just realize that you are exactly where you need to be.

Expanding Your Perspective: Are You Blocking Love?

Doncha just love how persistent the Universe is in getting its point across? Here I was thinking the message was about what form a relationship should take, when I am gobsmacked with the epiphany that the form I should be considering is the FORM I’ve been expecting for my Beloved to take.

This first came up two weeks ago when my coach pointed it out, but today, during a client session, the same realization resurfaced. And guess what? It was MY stuff too!

We get so hung up on how Mr./Ms. Right should look—five foot two, eyes of blue, or tall, dark, and handsome—that we unintentionally box Spirit in. The Universe always says yes, but what if Source knows exactly who your Beloved is and wants to bring them into your life, yet you’ve set up so many restrictions that it simply can’t deliver?

A Thought to Reflect On

Your weekend food for thought: Am I blocking my Beloved from coming into my life because I am being too restrictive in my request to the Universe?

If your answer is yes, shift your approach. Instead of fixating on specific traits, try asking for the perfect Beloved or Twin Flame. Then, give thanks that they are being delivered to you now.

The Evolution of Relationships: Letting Go of Outdated Structures

Everything is changing. The way relationships look is shifting along with it. For thousands of years, we’ve built and upheld the institution of marriage for various reasons—protection, possession, tradition—you name it.

But in today’s world, things are different. Many people are re-examining old institutions and value systems with fresh perspectives. As gender roles evolve and the balance between masculine and feminine energies stabilizes, the notion of a woman as the ‘weaker sex’ needing a husband for protection is becoming obsolete. She’s fully capable of taking care of herself.

Additionally, relationships between same-sex partners are not just accepted but celebrated as natural and valid forms of love.

Breaking Free from Old Beliefs

It’s time for all of us to examine our own programming around relationships. What do we truly resonate with? What belief systems have become outdated?

Judgment of any kind doesn’t align with higher consciousness. What feels right for one person may not feel right for another—and that’s okay. The key is to honor and respect each person’s path without trying to dictate their choices.