The Fear of Abandonment: An Illusion We Carry

Abandonment is an illusion. What if you were never left behind—only set free?
Abandonment is one of the deepest fears many of us hold. Over time, wounding from people, places, and situations reinforces this fear until it becomes a subconscious barrier—like a thorn in our finger that we protect at all costs to avoid triggering the pain.
But what if abandonment is an illusion? What if we’ve been interpreting separation in a way that keeps us stuck?
Energy, Motion, and the Perception of Separation
At its core, everything is energy—pure potential. Albert Einstein and other physicists have taught us that energy remains potential until motion is introduced.
This is where the illusion of abandonment begins. When consciousness took motion and became form, we experienced a shift—a separation that wasn’t truly separation, but simply movement.
Some souls perceived this as a loss, a falling away from the Creator—a belief that has carried over lifetimes. But what if this movement wasn’t abandonment at all?
Instead of being “left behind,” what if we were set free? Free to experience, create, and explore—like children being let loose to play in the most expansive park imaginable?
Shifting the Perception: From Abandonment to Freedom
If you’ve struggled with fear of abandonment, it might be time to reframe the way you see it. Instead of focusing on what you lost, try shifting toward what you gained.
Ask yourself:
✔ What if I was never abandoned, only given freedom?
✔ What if every loss I perceived was actually a redirection?
✔ What if the feeling of separation is just an invitation to reconnect with myself?
Final Thoughts: Breaking Free from the Illusion
Abandonment is a perception, not an absolute truth. If we begin to question its validity, we open ourselves up to a new reality—one where we were never left behind, only invited to expand.
What if it was never about loss, but about stepping into our own power?
It’s time to explore that possibility.