Why Trying to “Fix” Others Creates Energetic Entanglement
Did you know that every time you think you know what’s best for someone else, you create energetic entanglement—tying your energy to theirs and taking on emotional baggage that isn’t yours? Each of us is here to learn our own life lessons, and none of us truly knows what is best for anyone else.
But that doesn’t stop us, does it?
We see someone struggling, and instinctively, we jump in to tell them what they should or shouldn’t be doing. And what happens next?
🚨 Pushback. Resistance. Silence.
Why? Because they’re not ready to hear it. And here’s what you may not realize:
👉 By getting entangled in their journey, you actually start to carry their karma.
Ouch.
How to Let Go and Lead by Example
Here’s the truth: You can’t do the work for them. The best thing you can do? Detach and focus on your own growth.
✅ Lead by example—your transformation speaks louder than advice.
✅ Honor their process—trust that they will learn in their own time.
✅ Protect your energy—stop taking on burdens that aren’t yours.
When you release attachment to other people’s paths and focus on your own healing, you naturally inspire those around you—without ever having to say a word.
💬 Have you ever felt drained from trying to help someone who wasn’t ready? How did you handle it? Drop your thoughts in the comments!