The foundation of every relationship starts with YOU. Get clear on your values, needs, and truth to create healthier, aligned connections in your life.
The Foundation of Every Relationship: YOU
Why Your Relationship With Yourself Comes First
This is the first post in a new relationship series, and we’re starting at the only place that truly matters—the relationship you have with yourself. Why? Because it’s the only relationship you actually control.
Before we dive into romantic relationships, friendships, or business partnerships, let’s ask some big questions:
💡 Do you really know yourself?
💡 What is your truth?
💡 What are your core values?
If you don’t have clear answers, it’s time to dig deep. Your self-relationship sets the tone for every other connection in your life.
The Energy of Attraction: You Get What You Are
It’s impossible to build healthy relationships with others if you haven’t built one with yourself first. Here’s why:
✔️ You attract what you are. If you’re unclear about who you are, you’ll attract people who are equally disconnected from themselves.
✔️ Integrity starts with self-awareness. You can’t live in alignment with your truth if you don’t know what it is.
✔️ Clarity = Better Relationships. The clearer you are about your needs, values, and boundaries, the more aligned your relationships will be.
Your Challenge: A Self-Inventory
To prove this point, take a real, honest look at the relationships you’ve attracted over the past few years.
🔹 Were they healthy?
🔹 Did they support your growth?
🔹 Did they reflect your values—or challenge them?
Now, flip the mirror. How did YOU show up? Because the truth is, relationships don’t just happen to us. We create them based on who we are.
Ready for a Shift? Let’s Do the Work!
This is just the beginning. In the next posts, we’ll dive deeper into how to attract healthy, aligned relationships by doing the inner work first.
I’d love to hear your thoughts—drop me a line and let’s start this journey together!